I agree with most of what you say. Drumatic 3 is in my list as well (will ad it to the OP later). Also, Adonis is buggy here too, didn't have problems with INTRO so far. Oatmeal seems quite stable for me but I still need to put a few miles on it's counter
I like to have stable stuff too, but I'm willing to put up with a little 'temperament' for the sake of quality sounds and usability. Over time I might swap out certain plugs for more stable alternatives though.
I was interested in Voyager, but the UI threw me off big time. Tried Lime Flavour's skin but that suffers from a strange screen bug in Reaper (but not in my 'other' host).
Well, going to add some stuff to the list